James’ Cock Size

When you put yourself out there on the internet like we do, you open yourself up to all types of comments. Fortunately for us, I would say that we get way more good comments than we do bad or unkind comments.

However, if there is one particular recurring theme amongst the bad comments we get (mostly on Reddit…actually 100% on Reddit), it is about James’ cock size. Although I think the comments are unnecessary and without class in almost all cases, I also understand why some see it as a “small” cock.

The porn industry has skewed what we think of as a normal cock size. In fact, I would imagine the reason you still see almost exclusively large cocks even in amateur porn is because guys who don’t have porn sized cocks just don’t put them out there for people to see as often. In that respect, James is doing something many guys would be too insecure to do, and he gets trolled for it often.

Average penis size has been studied many times. If you do a search and look at various studies, you will find that the average erect penis size is somewhere between 5 and 5.5” long, and a girth somewhere between 4.5” and 4.75”. (this page has a lot of info on various studies).

There was a study done (see the study here) on women’s preference for penis size using 3D models. They asked the women to pick their preferred size for one-time partners and long-term partners separately. The results were penis sizes only a bit larger than average penises.

Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners.

Now, it is important to note that those are preferred if they could choose anything. You can be sure that there is a range of sizes that are more than acceptable. I know this for a fact.

You can watch the video below, but James is 6.2” long with a 4.75” girth. So, I tell him he has the perfect cock given that it is very close the long-term partner preference from the study! Haha.

NOTE: It is standard to push the ruler to the base of the cock for the measurement (often called “bone pressed” measurement). Some will also ask what your “non bone pressed” measurement is. James is 5.5” in the video.

Honestly, it really is pretty perfect for me. I have had bigger cocks in the past (in one-time partners and long-term partners). The issue with bigger cocks for me is that I get sore easier. I like to have sex a LOT (if you couldn’t tell). So, having a partner with a huge cock is not ideal for me. It can be fun once in a while for sure, but I would rather have a lot of sex with a cock like James’.

I asked James to write something about his feelings on his own cock size and here is what he said:

Honestly, I have always thought it was a bit small even though I know that is probably because of skewed perceptions due to porn. It is difficult to not still have thoughts about your cock being too small when you get as many comments as I do on Reddit, but I am pretty good at keeping perspective on it overall. If you asked me what I would change about it, I would probably say girth. I wouldn’t mind if it was a bit thicker. However, as Jess said, I apparently have a cock pretty close to women’s preferred long-term partner size. Can’t really complain about that.

I do wish James didn’t get these comments and that he loved his cock size as much as I do. I also hope that many of you out there who think your cocks are too small will at least realize that the averages and preferences are quite a bit smaller than what mainstream porn would make you think. Many of us women are pretty happy with cocks in the average range and 95% of cocks fall into that range.